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Originally Posted by Menage_a_Trois In thinking about the pending anniversary and a way to celebrate this year it got me to wondering about everyone else and their anniversaries for their poly relationships. |
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1) How long have your poly relationships been together?
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I've been married to my husband for 11 years, and with my partner for a little over a year and a half.
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2) Did you have a specific event that prompted an actually anniversary date or did you just decide on one like us?
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Because we're in a Vee relationship, and not an actual triad, we consider (when we actually take the time to think about it) that we have two anniversaries. One with my husband, one with my partner. For my partner, I kinda consider our anniversary as the day of our first date. We're not too hung up on this kind of occasion.
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3) How will you or have you celebrated your anniversaries?
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Sometimes we go out to dinner or something, but not a big deal for any of us. My husband is the romantic in the relationship, so he might get a card or something.
My personal belief is just that we should be loving and respectful of each other all the time. No specific celebration needed.