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Old 06-08-2007, 10:29 AM   #17 (permalink)
Lovers4U
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 39
Location: Sacramento/Chico, CA
Status: couple/m/f
Swing Lifestyle Name:lovers4u

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Default Re: asking for less?

Here again we think it is important to communicate openly with anyone who you expect to be intimate if there is any limits you desire. We try to play only with friends but we know that is not always possibly and then we say no or just let it happen. As someone stated. desires of some can be pushy and being uncomfortable is no way to be intimate with anyone. Again if the oral gets each excited that one wants intercourse and the comfort rises then go for it. The problem we see if the possible guilt feeling afterward when you realize the hormones overcame the limits. Decide and stick with the decision and hope the guy will want to play later after the comfort level rises.
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