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Old 06-08-2007, 04:48 AM   #15 (permalink)
Ruff
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Posts: 40
Location: NYC
Status: Single Male
Swing Lifestyle Name:BLKTHKRUFF

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Question Re: asking for less?

First of all I applaude you for being open and upfront about only wanting oral. Two of my worst experiences as a single male in the lifestyle was meeting 2 different couples with no intentions of any sexual intercourse between myself and the wife taking place but neglected to say so until everyone was in bed. Both times I was a voyuer and with one couple they waited until after I had a condom on to mention their agreed upon limit.
Since he is a single male I'm kind of surprised he'd use the term "full swap" since he obviously has no partner/spouse to actually swap. So I too would advise caution since he's coming sight unseen with the expectation of having sex with the female half as a possibility.
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