[empowered]

Thanks all! Yes, thats the Song.
I finally had the opportunity to discuss with him. Sadly, he denied, denied, denied!!! Took a while for him to catch on that that wasnt getting him anywhere. Then rationalized. then minimized, tried to bargain. Then started to really get the gravity of it all. He's shocked that i found his profile to begin with, and i believe he is getting just a little bit paranoid. For sure, he is not enjoying his trip at this point. His apology consisted of 'i don't have to say i'm sorry cuz i am, i screwed up, and i'm sorry...blah.blah.blah. We got cut off at this point. I'm sure he's going through some uncomfortable thoughts and feelings at this point.
But yes, i am doing what i need to do to divest.
You all have been wonderful.