Couldn't help but post one more quick note.
Clearly, though the guy is self-defined as a swinger, he's really not.
He's a Player, with all the connotations implied with that. Sadly, for some reason won't self-identify as such. Leaves it up to others. So not as good as playing with others as he posts. (wicked grin here).
I'm hearing that Nancy Sinatra song in my head right now.....