[Lovethenights]

We started our play in the lifestyle with a single man... I wasn't perfectly sure of how it would feel, seeing another man touching or even seeing my wife's naked body. Once we were together in the motel room, after a nice convivial dinner, we sat around chatting nervously until my wife excused herself to the bathroom. When she stepped back into the room naked and said, "Who is going to get my party started," I fell in love with her all over again. Watching her tease, touch, handle, torment, and be teased, touched, handled, and sti,ulated turned out to be the most erotic thing I could ever have imagined. Although we had agreed not to go to full penetration our first time, and she held herself and him to that, I was dying to see her spread open and enjoying him. I told her that later and she told me she was dying to take him inside too, but we were both so overwhelmed by the wonder and excitement and fascination of it, we forgot to say something to each other! Needless to say, our next time with him , we rectified that situation. My suggestion is plan ahead to go with what you're comfortable with and then arrange signals between each other to alter the plans on the fly if it's going one way or the other. You could end up doing more or you could end up doing less, but the big deal is you'll be doing something and getting your feet wet. If the lifestyle is as much fun for you as us, you'll never regret your first step and you'll thank yourself the rest of your life.