 Re: asking for less?
There's nothing wrong with doing what you are comfortable with. There is no reason for anyone (including yourself) to push you to do more than you are ready for. If at this point that is just soft swing then start with that and see how things go before you choose to progress.
One suggestion I would make, however, is to not lead him to believe that more is a sure thing later (it sounds like he may be thinking that from the comment in your first post). Let him know that you are taking things one meet at a time and that if things progress at all, they will be oral only. What you decide to do after that point will come after that point.
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