[jjpeople]

Thanks for all of the posts so far. We definetely were following the lead of the other couple. She was making me feel very included - she was kissing me throughout the night and I was still spending time with my husband, etc. But she wasn't paying much attention to HER husband - so I sort of felt like I should. Again, very very nice people, but I guess after swapping, I didn't want to feel like I was WITH him anymore, and he had his arm around me, kept kissing me, had me on his lap, etc.

My husband I definetely talked about it and decided on some things we would do differently next time. I realize you learn as you go. I personally felt the second time (quickie) was too much because honestly she was the only one who benefited from it (the rest of of us didn't get off) and as much as the encounter was exciting, I do think it is possible to have too much of a good thing.

We enjoyed this couple and their friendship - so I am sure we will play with them again. Maybe we will just have our own plans for afterwards next time.