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Originally Posted by jjpeople It was like we had swapped for the whole night and that wasn't what I was expecting - is that the norm? |
It's never happened that way for us, swapping for the whole night, while in a club, etc. After we've just had sex with another couple (we're a same-room couple), we just gravitate back to each other afterward. We don't announce it or request it ("we need to spend time together now"), we just do it in a natural way. If you and your husband just plan from here on out to switch back to each other right after, it will just happen that way. It's very typical for couples to come back together this way, and nobody will be offended if you do this.
When you're new, you tend to follow the lead of the other couple. You don't have to, though. With each new experience, you and your husband can discuss afterward what you'd do a little differently next time, expressing what felt right to you, and what you'd rather change - and then start doing things that way. It's how you hone and refine your style and your preferences. Best wishes to you!