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Originally Posted by sexcupid We all have our preferences, but to arbitrarily shoot down any couple based soley on age....well on one hand I guess it's no different than a couple that would pass by our profile just because I don't fit the HWP criteria that they might have. |
Hi Maria, HWP is a
really good example! However, rather than it being whether another couple is interested, I think the best comparison to Tia's situation would be your
husband's preferences in playmates. Using a general example, let's say a wife is larger-framed and considers herself BBW. She points out couples that are attractive and similiar to herself and her husband, but he shoots down all of her choices. He says, "She's not skinny enough for me." They need to be size 2-8 to be attractive to him (specific numbers, like the age 18-25 thing).
If I was age 38 and my man specifically wanted age 18-25 (or had to
look 18-25) or else he wasn't interested, or if I was size 16 and my man specifically wanted size 2-8's and nothing else would do for him, well....we would have a problem. I think it would be utterly impossible to not take this personally.
This isn't just a chick thing, either. A man would feel the same way if his wife was only attracted to men over 6' tall (but he's only 5'8"), or if she'd only consider men with penises over 8" and thick (but his penis is 5.5" and average girth). He's not going to get any taller. He's not going to grow a bigger penis. A woman is not going to look 18-25 years old for the rest of her life.