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Originally Posted by Tybee Swing When you point out a nice-looking 30's couple (his age bracket) and he immediately shoots down the woman as too old for him...this happens nearly every time? And yet, he's engaged to you, a woman six years older than himself.
Personally, I would not be cool with this trend and strong preference he has (including 18-19-year-olds?). It would make me wonder what in the hell he's doing with me, if he's primarily sexually interested in very young girls, 13-20 years younger than myself. But, that's just me (and I'm just being really, really honest). |
I totally agree with Tybee here. We all have our preferences, but to arbitrarily shoot down any couple based soley on age....well on one hand I guess it's no different than a couple that would pass by our profile just because I don't fit the HWP criteria that they might have.
OTOH, I will just refer back to Tybee's comments. The same exact thoughts went thru my mind when reading your post. I mean, I'm 14 years younger than my SO (I'm late 20s, he's early 40s). If he were consistently looking at people up to 10 years younger than me, which would be younger than his daughter (she's 21), and that was the ONLY age group he would consider... talk about a blow to the self esteem.
We've played with only 1 couple where the female was younger than me (she was mid-20s)...and we all hit it off fabulously. Well, she and I did, the guys couldn't get a word in edgewise...
It was a couple I had initiated contact with, I thought her back tattoo was awesome and liked their profile. I didn't pay much attention to the ages they had posted. So while other things that Jeff may say or do has the potential to give me a complex
, searching through the profiles is usually my task and he pretty much goes along with it.
Have you asked him what his deal is as far as only wanting to play in that age group?
Maria
