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Originally Posted by Tia Vampire I'll see a nice looking couple and he will immediatly look at the girl and say she is not in his age range. ... I like for a couple to be atleast in thier 30's and up. He wants 18 to 25 year olds. What's up with that? |
Hi Tia,
Initially you said you like "older" men and he likes younger girls, but it sounds like you prefer people in the age range of yourself and your fiance (30's), and he likes much younger girls.
When you point out a nice-looking 30's couple (his age bracket) and he immediately shoots down the woman as too old for him...this happens nearly every time? And yet, he's engaged to you, a woman six years older than himself.
Personally, I would not be cool with this trend and strong preference he has (including 18-19-year-olds?). It would make me wonder what in the hell he's doing with me, if he's
primarily sexually interested in
very young girls, 13-20 years younger than myself. But, that's just me (and I'm just being really, really honest).
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Originally Posted by Tia Vampire Do any one else here on the board have the same problem? |
We're close in age, he's 46 & I'm 47 (people tend to think we're younger). We both prefer and are most comfortable with people 30-something and up. We don't always really know their ages, they just
feel like they're in our age bracket - they feel like our peers.
In swinging, my husband has been with early-30-somethings (maybe late 20's), up through 40's and older. The wife of one of our regular couples is 50, and he as lots of fun with her. (He's open about the age range.) If he'd shot down all of these couples because the wife was around his own age and too "old" for him, and they needed to be under 33 for him to be attracted, I think I'd have to kick his ass.
Hugs!