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It doesn't seem so difficult to us. I've been the second female with my husband watching me with another couple, and we've had FMFs with the other husband watching. There may be a key in that sentence....we're not looking for the elusive single female, we're enjoying the opportunities as they present themselves. In all cases, the attraction on the dance floor was between the bi-women. The participating man either came up behind the other woman on the dance floor and was well-received, or joined us on the bed with a tentative move and was well-received. The other comment I would make is that often there are couples with men much older than their wives...those guys sometimes seem more satisfied to watch their women receiving pleasure but not participating. Of course, my husband isn't an older man, he just says sometimes a distance view is more erotic than than the close-up.