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Originally Posted by incommunicado Some of your harsher answers and more precipitous judgments have inspired a second question: How many of you have walked away from 10 years or more of marriage that was mostly very good, because you discovered your spouse had strayed? I understand your faith being shaken to the core, but how did you know you made the right decision being that unforgiving? Looking back, are you sure you made the right decision? How can you know for sure? |
I ended a 6 year co-habitating relationship over infidelity. I did it because I knew I could never trust her again. I know I made the right decision because now I'm with a lovely, wonderful, faithful woman who has been through the same thing I have and knows the pain it causes. We also both know that if either of us does cheat, it will be the end, whether it happens at 5 years or 25 years.
Some people can handle cheating and recover from it, some cannot. It's not a knock on you either way, so please don't take it that way.