[OkieOgre]

2 or 3 years after we got married, my wife and I decided to expand our horizions a bit and delved into the swinging lifestyle. We started having a great deal of fun, but there was a nagging feeling of something missing. Eventually we realized we wanted something more from our encounters. Something more lasting than the over night fling or the weekend get away.

We searched (inwardly and outwardly) and realized we were looking to expand our relationship by adding a third (and hopefuly eventually a 4th). We started meeting people and looking around.

Our first real shot at it was a bit of a dud, she was a nice enough girl, but we never clicked fully so we parted ways.

The two of us sat down and started expressing the things we were looking for in a potential mate. The list of things we wanted was pretty basic, down to earth, kinky, friendly, flirty, bisexual and a few other things. As we discussed it, we came to the realization that, short of being outwardly bi-sexual, my wife's best friend and at that time, our house mate, fit every qualification.

We approached her about it. she was very hesitant at first, and we let her be to mull it over. After a bit of time she decided she wanted to take our friendship to the next level. It was a slow start, taking babysteps all the way, but now, 3 years later, we are still all 3 strongly devoted and expecting our GF's first child any day now.

-Ogre