The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Can spouses who have cheated ever be trusted with Swinging again?

sereneiders · 05-21-2007, 03:24 AM

We've been togheter for 17 years. No one "cheated" on each other, even when we granted each other "permission" to do it should we meet someone able to make it happen, just with a "don't tell" policy, and at some point we started swinging.

Up to me, cheating isn't such a big deal. Loyalty is, and loyalty have to do with the contract you arranged for your relationship (and not a signed paper). Cheating may or may not imply a lack of loyalty.

Can spouses who have cheated ever be trusted with Swinging again? perhaps. Can spouses who have been unloyal ever be trusted with Swinging again? I doub't so, unless a lot of water passed under the bridge.

Again, there's no "yes" or "no". Ask someone else.

05-21-2007, 03:24 AM	#28 (permalink)
sereneiders Some sort of user Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,131 Location: Argentina Status: Couple	Re: Can spouses who have cheated ever be trusted with Swinging again? We've been togheter for 17 years. No one "cheated" on each other, even when we granted each other "permission" to do it should we meet someone able to make it happen, just with a "don't tell" policy, and at some point we started swinging. Up to me, cheating isn't such a big deal. Loyalty is, and loyalty have to do with the contract you arranged for your relationship (and not a signed paper). Cheating may or may not imply a lack of loyalty. Can spouses who have cheated ever be trusted with Swinging again? perhaps. Can spouses who have been unloyal ever be trusted with Swinging again? I doub't so, unless a lot of water passed under the bridge. Again, there's no "yes" or "no". Ask someone else.