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Turning the question back in a personal way, ask yourself this:
Do you believe that you can trust your spouse with swinging? Has your spouse proven her love, loyalty and devotion to you? Do her actions now foster a closeness that surpasses what you had before? Can you say that she is your best friend?
These things would matter most to me. Best wishes to you
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Unless you can answer yes to every one of these questions, I'd hold off period. I'm sorry dude, but the title of your thread says you can't right now.
Take (some) of the advice given and don't be one of those that get's pissed off when they are told things they don't want to hear.