For me, when we get to a point whre it feels like we are done with the sex and whatever goes along with it (granted sex sometimes goes into multiple sessions) then I get up and get dressed and leave.
I've rarely ever had a problem with it. There have been a few guys that want us to lie there and hold each other or fall asleep together, but most understand the lines between sex and emotion and are no more interested in the "extras" than I am.
When it comes to situations where me and hubby are playing together with another couple (when it comes to couple swapping we are pretty much always same room... just find it to be more fun to be able to watch each other), then assuming we swap for sex once the sex is over then we are all 4 lying there together and most likely next to our partners (if not multiple people) and that post-sex stuff is going on between mates.
I think it really does come down to how you seperate sex and emotion. Something that even a lot of swingers have a problem doing. |