[JustAskJulie]

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Originally posted by incommunicado:
Maybe this will change with time, but WE are really more interested in couples that are good friends that fuck, much like ones the ones you meet in college.

We exchange double entendre's, knowing winks, fanny pats, you name it, with our close friends. Why would we not want this closeness with people we swing with? Especially, since we want ALL our swinging to be with new or old friends. Keeping that kind of distance with someone who has seen us "naked and happy" seems odd to us. Kind of like the "no kissing" rule.

This one is definitely a "different strokes for different folks" issue. I'm sure there is no right or wrong answer.

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There's a big difference between

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double entendre's, knowing winks, fanny pats,

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and soft loving strokes following sex. A difference between being "friends that fuck" and being friends where emotions may get in the way. I think it's just a matter of knowing where the lines are for you and what you feel comfortable with.