[Merric]

crazy4u
Well my suggestion since you’ve indicated it’s you and your SO plus another couple, is at dinner sit next to each other’s SO’s instead of your own. Keep the talk light hearted and get to know the person you’re considering spending the evening intimately with. With a good dinner wine, and no I’m not suggesting drunkenness or overt intoxication here, but just something that’ll go good with the meal and make the environment more comfortable. By the time the meals over and you’re moving in the living room, you might find without really noticing or thinking about it the SO hostess has taken your arm then find yourself sitting with her on the couch continuing your chat. Likewise following you in your SO will probably likewise be occupied either on a couch, floor cushions whatever with chatting to the host. Then before you know it . . . Ah but what do I know?