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OhioCouple · 07-09-2002, 02:23 PM

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Originally posted by incommunicado:
Where as my wife and I are the opposite. We need to connect on a mental and emotional level and have sex that is both passionate and caring. We want to be able to hang out afterwards, or get dressed and go see a movie or whatever. We don't like sex that ends with "well, thanks, gott go."

We are essentially looking for the same thing in our extracurricular sex partners that we would look for in a relationship. It's simply understood that the emotional line beyond friendship will not be crossed.

I may have given the wrong impression here. We both prefer to "know" our swinging partners, and we do participate in non-swinging activities, chit chat etc both before and after with each couple that we swing with. The original post referred to swinging solo and being intimatly alone with the other partner. Julie's post which I think you are referring to stated "casual sexual encounters". If a casual encounter that I met up with, whether it be at a club private party etc....started to caress or hug on me after just meeting me, I would be HIGHLY turned off.

Score 0 for the parties involved.

Lori

07-09-2002, 02:23 PM	#13 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	quote: Originally posted by incommunicado: Where as my wife and I are the opposite. We need to connect on a mental and emotional level and have sex that is both passionate and caring. We want to be able to hang out afterwards, or get dressed and go see a movie or whatever. We don't like sex that ends with "well, thanks, gott go." We are essentially looking for the same thing in our extracurricular sex partners that we would look for in a relationship. It's simply understood that the emotional line beyond friendship will not be crossed. I may have given the wrong impression here. We both prefer to "know" our swinging partners, and we do participate in non-swinging activities, chit chat etc both before and after with each couple that we swing with. The original post referred to swinging solo and being intimatly alone with the other partner. Julie's post which I think you are referring to stated "casual sexual encounters". If a casual encounter that I met up with, whether it be at a club private party etc....started to caress or hug on me after just meeting me, I would be HIGHLY turned off. Score 0 for the parties involved. Lori __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.