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OhioCouple · 07-09-2002, 01:15 PM

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For me I can't deal with other partners being really intimate with me in other ways. Soft touches and carresses seem a little too intimate for a casual sexual encounter to me and always make me feel uncomfortable if someone starts that.

I tend to be more like a guy when it come to sex tho. "ok we're done I can go now..."

Julie,

That is EXACTLY how it felt in addition to the conversation. I do not think it was anything meant out of looking for a romantic connection of any sort, but it just felt strange.

You are right about setting the boundries for the next get together, and I am sure that over the course of our chatting we can establish that in a manner that will not offend anyone as we do not wish to do that. They are very nice people.

I do think tho that I am one of those types that may tend to say "ok, we are done now, can I go?". Perhaps that is my way of seperating non-marital sex (sorry if that sounds so harsh), from friendship and the relationship with my husband.

Any luck on the kissy face graemlin yet? LOL

Lori

07-09-2002, 01:15 PM	#11 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	quote: For me I can't deal with other partners being really intimate with me in other ways. Soft touches and carresses seem a little too intimate for a casual sexual encounter to me and always make me feel uncomfortable if someone starts that. I tend to be more like a guy when it come to sex tho. "ok we're done I can go now..." Julie, That is EXACTLY how it felt in addition to the conversation. I do not think it was anything meant out of looking for a romantic connection of any sort, but it just felt strange. You are right about setting the boundries for the next get together, and I am sure that over the course of our chatting we can establish that in a manner that will not offend anyone as we do not wish to do that. They are very nice people. I do think tho that I am one of those types that may tend to say "ok, we are done now, can I go?". Perhaps that is my way of seperating non-marital sex (sorry if that sounds so harsh), from friendship and the relationship with my husband. Any luck on the kissy face graemlin yet? LOL Lori __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.