Ok it's Sunday and I'm home alone thus equaling BORED to death..........
I'm reading the
sex and the city Kiss and Tell book and came across the section on Samantha Jones (my favorite character in the series). One of the "Samantha-isms" is:
ON THREESOMES: "The only way to do a threesome is to be the guest star."
& this got my little pee brain thinking
. Mr. Ménage and I have been doing the MFF thing and frankly while I get my greatest pleasure from knowing he is having fun I get very little from them in a sexual sense. This phrase hit it home for me as to why this might possibly be. Within the lifestyle we just don't interact with each other sexually which makes the threesomes challenging for me. Our sexual threesome’s as a triad are nothing like the lifestyle, they are always wonderful and off the charts – but that is because of our feelings for one another. But the few I have done on my own and enjoyed were when I was the invitee, aka the guest star.
So my
to everyone else who has had and continues to participate in the threesome's - how is it most enjoyable for you? Is it with your SO and a stranger; is it when you are the guest star with another couple? What is it that you prefer, the MMF or the MFF?
Just food for thought...................
Thanks for your input………
The Other Mrs. Ménage