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Originally Posted by iapr
First off is the feeling truly guilt or is it really something else?...Could it be that since you have only been with your husband before this that what you are feeling is some sort of loss? Do you feel that you lost your ability to say that you have only been with one man and that you have some mourning over that evan though you did enjoy the swinging experience?
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I like the many points and questions iapr has brought into this thread.
The quote I brought in from his post really stood out most, because I feel once you swing, you do move into another chapter in your life. How you have identified yourself all your life has now changed; you can no longer say "I've only had sex with my husband." As silly as that may seem, having been a one-man woman can be seen as a gold medal in a way, something we as women can feel unique about and have a sentimental pride in. Maybe your tears were brought on because you feel you've tossed out that gold medal.
I hope you come back and post your thoughts. We'd all like to hear how you've been doing.
LM