The Swingers Board - View Single Post

OhioCouple · 07-09-2002, 09:06 AM

quote:
Originally posted by incommunicado:

If you were playing golf or bowling, the conversation might be the same. Why should it be different if you are having sex?

I wouldn't sweat it unless they start start talking about relationship problems or showing strong signs of getting romantically attached.

You are exactly right, and this helps me to understand it a little more. I suppose there really isn't any difference as neither of them have talked about relationship problems, it has just been "normal" topics that we always talk about, but we had always done them in a group setting.

They have been swinging for several years, where as we are relatively new. I suppose I just freaked as it was a new experience to me. Mind you I did not relay this to them, and we do still talk often, sometimes daily via e-mail or IM, etc., and if we were to stop swinging today, I firmly believe that we would remain friends.

Just another level of learning I suppose.

Lori [Eek!]

07-09-2002, 09:06 AM	#9 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	quote: Originally posted by incommunicado: If you were playing golf or bowling, the conversation might be the same. Why should it be different if you are having sex? I wouldn't sweat it unless they start start talking about relationship problems or showing strong signs of getting romantically attached. You are exactly right, and this helps me to understand it a little more. I suppose there really isn't any difference as neither of them have talked about relationship problems, it has just been "normal" topics that we always talk about, but we had always done them in a group setting. They have been swinging for several years, where as we are relatively new. I suppose I just freaked as it was a new experience to me. Mind you I did not relay this to them, and we do still talk often, sometimes daily via e-mail or IM, etc., and if we were to stop swinging today, I firmly believe that we would remain friends. Just another level of learning I suppose. Lori __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.