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Carcouple34l · 04-27-2007, 03:29 AM

I know our first time was MFM and I know I felt guilty, and he was kinda uncomfortable about it. then 6 months later we met a great couple that we had a great three year realtionship with. One of the things I cannot stress enough for our relationship is that we both have to be completly comfortable with both parties. We talk about th situation and if either one of us has a doubt we find it is easier to say no than to feel guilty.

I think everyone there first time feels a little weirded out by the whole thing, but when both couples feel completly at ease with each other it can be a great experiance. Never just run out and find the first couple, always be sure you both know that each other is ok, first and foremost.

04-27-2007, 03:29 AM	#12 (permalink)
Carcouple34l Registered Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Minnesota Status: Couple	Re: Is the guilt normal? I know our first time was MFM and I know I felt guilty, and he was kinda uncomfortable about it. then 6 months later we met a great couple that we had a great three year realtionship with. One of the things I cannot stress enough for our relationship is that we both have to be completly comfortable with both parties. We talk about th situation and if either one of us has a doubt we find it is easier to say no than to feel guilty. I think everyone there first time feels a little weirded out by the whole thing, but when both couples feel completly at ease with each other it can be a great experiance. Never just run out and find the first couple, always be sure you both know that each other is ok, first and foremost.