Thanks for the support Quin. I was beginning to think I was nuts or something. The M half said I was being phobic although we both agreed to not swing separately with them again. You expressed it exactly when talking about the intimate chit chat. May as well have lit a ciggarette and poured a scotch, and reflected on the day at hand, like something out of a 1930's movie. For me it crossed the boundries.
I do consider myself to be very sexually open, but I am not open to intimacy with another person in the bedroom alone. That is what I have a husband and friends for.
Heck, this whole thread gets me darn near as much as the Pledge of Allegience, but in a different way!
At least I know I am not crazy!
Lori