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Quin · 07-08-2002, 10:38 PM

quote:
Originally posted by OhioCouple:
Julie,

This I am sure is something within me, because yes, we do kick back and talk about whatever when we are all together. Usually though, we are cuddled up with our spouses. This just was really strange to me and a lot could have to do with the fact that it was the first time that we had gone solo. Nothing was discussed that we don't talk about on a regular basis via other outlets.

I suppose the newbie in me is coming out.

Lori

Lori,
I think I know what you're talking about and yeah, I think it's probably a good idea to not go separate ways again but the four of you to remain in one room. This kind of intimate,loverish kind of chit chat afterwards is the very reason I prefer to have more than me and the person in the room. Of course tho, with me, the more the merrier. [LOL]

So that situation usually doesn't come up but it has once or twice when I was with this one wife in particular (her husband encouraged us to be together even when he was present and well, we did [Angel or Devil]

). With her, I was able to tell her that it made me uncomfortable (especially if she was talking about him, even tho it wasn't anything bad). She was cool about it, tho I don't know how a male would react if I had said the same thing to him. I'm one all for avoid certain circumstances if at all possible and the best way to do this would be not to be *alone* with him.

VOTE FOR JULIE!! [Blowjob]

Quin

07-08-2002, 10:38 PM	#6 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	quote: Originally posted by OhioCouple: Julie, This I am sure is something within me, because yes, we do kick back and talk about whatever when we are all together. Usually though, we are cuddled up with our spouses. This just was really strange to me and a lot could have to do with the fact that it was the first time that we had gone solo. Nothing was discussed that we don't talk about on a regular basis via other outlets. I suppose the newbie in me is coming out. Lori Lori, I think I know what you're talking about and yeah, I think it's probably a good idea to not go separate ways again but the four of you to remain in one room. This kind of intimate,loverish kind of chit chat afterwards is the very reason I prefer to have more than me and the person in the room. Of course tho, with me, the more the merrier. So that situation usually doesn't come up but it has once or twice when I was with this one wife in particular (her husband encouraged us to be together even when he was present and well, we did ). With her, I was able to tell her that it made me uncomfortable (especially if she was talking about him, even tho it wasn't anything bad). She was cool about it, tho I don't know how a male would react if I had said the same thing to him. I'm one all for avoid certain circumstances if at all possible and the best way to do this would be not to be alone with him. VOTE FOR JULIE!! Quin __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.