[curiousagain]

I just want to ditto some things that have already been said. Y'all are going at a different pace, you don't want to swing with them and they don't want to spend time with people who don't want to swing with them. Life comes at you pretty fast and everyone's time is limited. One has to make decisions how to spend that time and who with. That is one reason I don't IM or email a lot before meeting people. I've only got so much time and I figure an email or two and we meet and things either flow or they don't and then we move on either to play the next time or not meet again. Anyone that wants to email/im/phone call a bunch and get to know me and become good friends before we swing is not moving at my pace and I'd rather we not waste each other's time. I'm already having sex with female friends when they're between boyfriends and being the other M in MFM etc. with friends so I'm not looking for more friends. It doesn't mean anybody is wrong, just different. But, I wouldn't keep subjecting myself to negative comments I felt were unwarranted either. Clearly, it's time to go separate ways.