Re: Holier than thou
This reminds me of something my single friend says to me pretty often.... when he gets into situations with women he is interested in only to find out that they want to be "just friends". His response... "I have enough friends". Not to say that we can't all use more friends but in reality most of us just don't have time to maintain friendships with more than a small core group of friends, which typically means that if we meet new friends that are more compatible with us one or more of those old friends who weren't so compatible will drop away.
No one is in the wrong here. You've just gone different directions. If you aren't into going to clubs that doesnt' mean you aren't cut out for swinging... it just limits how you will swing and with whom. Keep looking and keep having fun together.
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