Just a quick question, if you don't mind because I was confused when I read this thread from beginning to end.
Did you and your hubby ever TELL them that it wasn't going to work for you sexually and that you wanted to be only vanilla friends with them? From our experience, lots of swingers save the "vanilla" type activities for after the play, so perhaps they didn't understand what direction the two of you were coming from? I may be completely off base here, but if so, I apologize. S
