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sereneiders · 04-23-2007, 10:55 PM

Well, this sort of things happened to us.

We're regulars at a club, and this have an advantage: we know a lot of people. You know, as a couple you may develop a secret signs code to let your spouse know how things evolve when meeting other preople.

The funny thing is, something like that happens with the other regulars, and, well, I don't know if this is an usual behavior inside other clubs, but regulars trends to pay attention when someones aproaches you, I mean, it is a caring attitude, for example, if the unknown guy gets bold, he suddenly realize he's being surrounded with other people (mostly husbands) making him notice a bad behavior wouldn't be tolerated. I know, it sounds much like "mafia style", LOL.

For this sort of situations, often the only you have to do is give a significative sight to another regular nearby, and they come to rescue. Usually some other woman grabs the wife by her arm and pulls her aside to "play" or "start talking or joking", leving the husband alone with the couple. If this weren't enough to break the situation, the husband still have the chance to excuse himself to look for the wife. It works pretty well :-)

04-23-2007, 10:55 PM	#2 (permalink)
sereneiders Some sort of user Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,131 Location: Argentina Status: Couple	Re: Buzz Kill! Well, this sort of things happened to us. We're regulars at a club, and this have an advantage: we know a lot of people. You know, as a couple you may develop a secret signs code to let your spouse know how things evolve when meeting other preople. The funny thing is, something like that happens with the other regulars, and, well, I don't know if this is an usual behavior inside other clubs, but regulars trends to pay attention when someones aproaches you, I mean, it is a caring attitude, for example, if the unknown guy gets bold, he suddenly realize he's being surrounded with other people (mostly husbands) making him notice a bad behavior wouldn't be tolerated. I know, it sounds much like "mafia style", LOL. For this sort of situations, often the only you have to do is give a significative sight to another regular nearby, and they come to rescue. Usually some other woman grabs the wife by her arm and pulls her aside to "play" or "start talking or joking", leving the husband alone with the couple. If this weren't enough to break the situation, the husband still have the chance to excuse himself to look for the wife. It works pretty well :-)