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***JustAskJulie*** · 04-23-2007, 09:53 PM

Have you ever been out at a club having a decent time on your own (you and your other) when you make the mistake of talking to the wrong person/couple who then proceeds to kill your buzz?

This happened to us this weekend. We were out and I felt like I should be friendly and introduce ourselves to the table next to us, so I did. They seemed nice enough at first. Later on we were in a different part of the club when they came up to us and started talking some more, proceeding to compare and contrast the club we were at with another one ... and telling us how the other one was much more friendly, etc. I made a comment to them that I've made here many times "it is what you make of it.... if you want people to be friendly you have to talk to them... if you just sit and wait for them to come to you... you'll be bored" (or something to that affect). I don't think she cared for that comment. But that was just one of many things that she seemed to have a really negative attitude about. When they finally left us on our own... it was like the night just took on a totally different vibe... I'd lost my buzz! We stuck around for a while and met a few other more friendly and upbeat people but I just never could get that "good feeling" back again and we finally ended up leaving early.... all because I chose to introduce us to the wrong people!

No wonder some people never talk to anyone at the clubs! LOL.

04-23-2007, 09:53 PM	#1 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,293 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Buzz Kill! Have you ever been out at a club having a decent time on your own (you and your other) when you make the mistake of talking to the wrong person/couple who then proceeds to kill your buzz? This happened to us this weekend. We were out and I felt like I should be friendly and introduce ourselves to the table next to us, so I did. They seemed nice enough at first. Later on we were in a different part of the club when they came up to us and started talking some more, proceeding to compare and contrast the club we were at with another one ... and telling us how the other one was much more friendly, etc. I made a comment to them that I've made here many times "it is what you make of it.... if you want people to be friendly you have to talk to them... if you just sit and wait for them to come to you... you'll be bored" (or something to that affect). I don't think she cared for that comment. But that was just one of many things that she seemed to have a really negative attitude about. When they finally left us on our own... it was like the night just took on a totally different vibe... I'd lost my buzz! We stuck around for a while and met a few other more friendly and upbeat people but I just never could get that "good feeling" back again and we finally ended up leaving early.... all because I chose to introduce us to the wrong people! No wonder some people never talk to anyone at the clubs! LOL.