[JustAskJulie]

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Originally posted by OhioCouple:
M&J,

I probably didn't phrase my questions correctly. By personal matters, I didn't mean anything that we probably hadn't talked about before as a group, but it was the fact of kicking back and just wanting to lay there and talk like you would intimatly with your significant other after great sex. That is what made me uncomfortable. Had the conversation been one that was shared with all of us in a non-intimate environment, I would have been fine with it and kicked right in with opinions etc. Perhaps it is just me? I only know that it made me uncomfortable.
Lori

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Lori,

When the 4 of you play together as a group (say at one of your homes) do you all just kick back afterwards and talk while still lying around the house naked?

As long as the issues being discussed weren't things you wouldn't otherwise talk about I don't see it as a major problem but I can understand how you could feel uncomfortable. That being the case since you are all good friends perhaps the 4 of you should sit down and talk to each other as a group and establish some comfort zones.

Obviously you consider these people to be friends outside of the sexual issues and evidently they feel the same way about you, if not a little moreso. To the point where they feel as comfortable just lying around naked talking as they do having sex with you or going out to dinner with you.