my first impression is to wonder what kind of personal matters? i don't mean to pry, but, you say you all have been intimate, and friendly, discussing non-lifestyle related topics. that does lend toward the comfort level being there as ou have asked.
but again, not understanding the context, i would say, like in any other situation, gracefully change the subject, make a joke/evade with humor, or simply say that there are some things better left unspoken.
btw, love your signature. who's the author?
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he is m, she is j
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