 Re: Basic newbie swinging mistakes.
Well said, Chicup.
Like you, we find it hard to be attracted to people that we feel aren't at least "potential" friends. We feel lucky to have met a couple that actually turned into true friends. However, this isn't something we ever really expected.
Looking for, and expecting to find, friendships like this first isn't much different to me than trying to make your vanilla friends your swinging friends. I feel it is unrealistic for a good friendship to be a necessity. If a friendship later develops, then that's just a lovely surprise.
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