Thread: Common Newbie Swinger Mistakes
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Old 04-19-2007, 02:43 PM   #67 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by des1re06
Please clarify. I'm not sure what you mean by commitment?

We give people a 2 week window to meet (dinner, drinks, non-sex meet), and if they don't "commit" to a meeting within that time, we move on.

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Mrs. D
We have actually had people contact us and say that if we aren't going to commit to have sex with them on the first meet then don't waste their time. We didn't waste their time, or ours, their is no way we will commit to having sex before we actually meet in person.

We ran into one of these couples at the club one night and they were just as aggressive in person. The weird part is that other than insisting on a commitment for sex on the first meet, they seemed like they would be compatible with us when we corresponded online. In person we found we couldn't even stand to talk to them after about two minutes and they were aggressive to the point of being belligerent.
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