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Originally Posted by graygo98 I would nominate "Too Many Rules." Sure, you need to know your limits and play safe. But some new couples build this web of rules about things like kissing, touching, oral, that whole soft swing dance. It not only takes a lot of the fun and spontaneity out of a new experience but it just makes something that should be fun seem like work. Too many rules also create the potential for tons of drama when someone breaks a rule... or maybe bends it a bit. |
Good one graygo98, we did this when we first started and see new people doing this all the time. The opposite is also true, that is those couples that go into it with no guidelines whatsoever and end up creating drama that others don't need because they are not on the same page about what is acceptable.