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Tia Vampire · 04-18-2007, 02:53 PM

When asked how did we get into swinging and how we feel about it, I reply a girlfriend got us into it and i don't feel anyway about it because it is nothing but a booty call between couples. Many couples hesitate first and seem like they have a handfull of other question they would like to ask, but they don't. I wish they would tell me what is on thier minds. Some laugh and some agree.
We don't like drama, so we try to find out who are the trouble makers and who are the cool people. So far we hang out with a pretty cool bunch when at our favorite spot.
We only have one single guy that follows us around when he is there. We can't shake him and we have gotton to the point that we call first to see if he is there. He does seem to get upset with us when we play with others, but so far has not said anything to us about it.
The only mistake i think we have made so far is taking people words for it. More honesty is needed.

04-18-2007, 02:53 PM	#59 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,059 Location: Florida Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:tiavampire	Re: Basic newbie swinging mistakes. When asked how did we get into swinging and how we feel about it, I reply a girlfriend got us into it and i don't feel anyway about it because it is nothing but a booty call between couples. Many couples hesitate first and seem like they have a handfull of other question they would like to ask, but they don't. I wish they would tell me what is on thier minds. Some laugh and some agree. We don't like drama, so we try to find out who are the trouble makers and who are the cool people. So far we hang out with a pretty cool bunch when at our favorite spot. We only have one single guy that follows us around when he is there. We can't shake him and we have gotton to the point that we call first to see if he is there. He does seem to get upset with us when we play with others, but so far has not said anything to us about it. The only mistake i think we have made so far is taking people words for it. More honesty is needed.