[lovinher]

After thinking about this I have have to wonder about #5. This isn't a statement because I don't feel I'm qualified on this particular subject.


Is it being unrealistic to want to get to know prospective playmates beforehand? What is wrong with trying to get to know a couple before jumping into bed with them? I'm not talking about endless EM's but having some general conversations with them can give you an idea if they are the type you want have sex with. Personally I don't feel comfortable just jumping in the sack without knowing something about the woman I am about to have sex with. Most importantly I want to know something about the guy Lovinhim is going to play with. Not because I want to control who she plays with. I want to make sure she is with somebody that will give her the respect she deserves and respect our wishes. If a couple cannot give us the time to get to know them a bit beforehand then it isn't going to happen. Now at a club obviously, getting to know somebody isn't really an option. This is kind of a gray area for us and I'm not sure what is expected so I'm looking forward to hearing some opinions from you veterans out there.