You would think it was quite commonplace now to see shavings (and piercings) of all types that there wouldn't be a reaction. Maybe she was thinking how beautiful you looked, instead of "porn star".
I recently told my gyn I was bi, and she couldn't leave the room fast enough. It was a very uncomfortable experience, and I was shocked at her reaction. I'm looking for a new gyn.
We pay enough for professional services that we should expect non-judgemental treatment. Let them know how you feel.
Good luck!
Mrs. D