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clutch · 04-09-2007, 06:39 PM

Hi StacyCat

Years ago, we were into everything and everyone. We had special couples that were sort of poly-istic--ie more than just sex, but we liked the variety too.

Now we're exclusive with one other couple. We're all very fond of each other, really enjoy the sex with each other, but none of us want to live together or spend the night away from our own spouse. (We live in different towns).

I've come to the conclusion that Thomas Jefferson had a reason for not going into too much detail on what he meant by "pursuit of happiness." Mainly because so many derive it so many different ways. Bottom line to that, you're not weird in any way shape or form.

If someone implies your weird, they're probably a little fearful or immature.

and...

by putting what you think you'd like to try out here, you've already taken the first step towards attaining what you're after.

Best of luck... I do believe the perfect people for your situation are out there and probably closer than you think.

Love and cheers....

04-09-2007, 06:39 PM	#5 (permalink)
clutch Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 140 Location: tennessee	Re: Poly or Swinging? Hi StacyCat Years ago, we were into everything and everyone. We had special couples that were sort of poly-istic--ie more than just sex, but we liked the variety too. Now we're exclusive with one other couple. We're all very fond of each other, really enjoy the sex with each other, but none of us want to live together or spend the night away from our own spouse. (We live in different towns). I've come to the conclusion that Thomas Jefferson had a reason for not going into too much detail on what he meant by "pursuit of happiness." Mainly because so many derive it so many different ways. Bottom line to that, you're not weird in any way shape or form. If someone implies your weird, they're probably a little fearful or immature. and... by putting what you think you'd like to try out here, you've already taken the first step towards attaining what you're after. Best of luck... I do believe the perfect people for your situation are out there and probably closer than you think. Love and cheers....