A great ice breaker is sex dice. They can be gotten at most "toy stores'. We use them rather often especially at larger parties. One die has a body part ( above waist, nipples, etc.) the other has a function( lick, suck, etc.) good way to start things. the dice thrower gets to pick who he or she plays with for about 30 seconds.We have 2 sets in case it is a larger party and in case some people seem to take longer
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