[dayhiker]

Hi StacyCat,
That's great that you have come to the place you can verbalize what you have learned about yourself. I think its taken me quite a while to learn that and I'm not sure I still have it figured out.
As a single guy, I'd say I don't want to meet a girl just for sex but would love a whole day together with some intmacy. I'm not ready to settle down with one woman either. I did that, enjoyed if very much. But want to find something between swinging and poly just like you desire.
I have talked with a few people that have that. So i can be found. Clearly finding it means we have to tell people what we are looking for and probably get rejected quite a few times. That makes it hard to keep looking.

let us know how it goes,
dayhiker