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Originally Posted by catslaughing I prefer to think people who live to norm X their entire life without question or challenge are the real freaks.
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Well then. Freaks we are NOT -- LOL
StacyCat, the way you describe how you'd like to live your life is how I feel being part of a couple. If I were a single, it would be hard for me to swing, I think, because I too would want some sort of emotional connection. I have that emotional connection with Mr. Fun, so having sex with others fulfills the desire to experience new sexual pleasures without having to worry about the emotional stuff.
WITH THAT SAID, we much prefer to have a "relationship" with those we play with -- friends with benefits type thing. This isn't love, but it is "like" and respect for the ones we play with. However, we have found it very hard to find these types of couples (or singles, for that matter) because we don't live the "lifestyle," and normal life trumps play time.
So, I wonder if you were in a couple relationship, and swinging as a couple, if you would feel the same feelings as you do today. I think I'd feel the same way you do if I were swinging solo.
Interesting topic!