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Originally Posted by MattnCynn My question is how to get him over thinking about how he measures up to the other men (he is average not small) |
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Originally Posted by MattnCynn how do you go about introducing yourself to another cpl at the club and letting them know you are interested? We are both on the shy side until we get to know people. Or how do you know they might be interested? Really new at all this and not sure how things go. |
You have to force yourself outside of the box a little, outside of your comfort level as a shy person, and be friendly. Clubs are full of couples who sit quietly all night in one spot, just observing. They're not approached much, because they don't look like they want to be. In clubs, you have to put yourself out there, smile a lot, say "hi", mingle. Hang out in the most social area of the club. If there's a dance floor, dance. Chat casually with people at the bar, at the buffet table. Ask friendly questions.
As far as zoning in on the particular couple you're interested in, be a little
more friendly. Ask them to dance. Compliment their sexy outfit. If they respond positively, keep the conversation going. If it feels mutual, ask them to join you at a table, at the bar, etc. to chat/get to know each other better.
If the vibe is going really well and you want to play, say something like, "We were thinking of going to the back/upstairs (the sex area) - would you like to join us?" Yeah, you have to be prepared to make some moves. It might take some practice, but you'll get it!