We have been swinging for about a year and hubby finally told one of his good friends about us. We both thought long and hard about this. We are very private and respect our friends and their privacy as well.
We had a party this weekend and invited a few couples...some vanilla, some not. Everyone knew that this was a vanilla party. So...during the party, the "good friend" told his mother about us. His mother is tres cool and I suspect that she has dabbled in...well, anyway, she was fine with the information. However, hubby and I are annoyed. The friend said that he did it because his mother kept asking questions about us and he didn't want to lie to her. I believe that he just couldn't resist. By the way, this friend has known for about eight months and has always respected our privacy.
By the way, this same friend can't tell his wife because she is very conservative and would "forbid" him from hanging out with us. I find this whole situation distasteful and will find it very difficult to trust him again. In fact, I am not sure how much I want him in our lives. I am definitely going to write about this in my blog
. Thoughts??