The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Need help getting him over the performance, size fear

MattnCynn · 04-02-2007, 12:26 PM

I may use the line about the tongue it is very true. Thanks for the suggestion I hadnt even thought of that.
He started comparing himself to a few of the men that have posted pics on another site we visit. I dont think he realizes a really close up pic tends to make it look bigger lol. I was really surprised to find out he had this issue. I have always been the one to have issues with my body. He has always been confident and comfortable with his body.
Any advice about the not being able to perform??? I have read several posts and realize that it is a good possibility that it will happen the first time. How do I get across to him that most men have had this problem and the women will be understanding because their man probably went thru it also?

04-02-2007, 12:26 PM	#4 (permalink)
MattnCynn Registered Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 9 Location: Indiana	Re: Need help getting him over the performance, size fear I may use the line about the tongue it is very true. Thanks for the suggestion I hadnt even thought of that. He started comparing himself to a few of the men that have posted pics on another site we visit. I dont think he realizes a really close up pic tends to make it look bigger lol. I was really surprised to find out he had this issue. I have always been the one to have issues with my body. He has always been confident and comfortable with his body. Any advice about the not being able to perform??? I have read several posts and realize that it is a good possibility that it will happen the first time. How do I get across to him that most men have had this problem and the women will be understanding because their man probably went thru it also?