The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Need help getting him over the performance, size fear

Cpl2share · 04-02-2007, 12:11 PM

First of all: Get him good and hard, then measure him. As long as he measures at least 5.5 inches, he is at least average. A little known fact: It looks much smaller from where we see it. How do I know? I used actual measurements of my own (which I always thought was low-average) to make a life size replica of my penis for Mrs. Cpl. When I was done, I compared it, yep the same, then took a good look at it and realized that there was no way that I would want that thing going into me! LOL For whatever reason, there is an optical illusion that occures when you look at it from 2' up. The other factor is that he has probably watched porn. Most of us (prior to swinging) have never seen an erect penis other than our own except in porn. They do NOT use small guys in porn. If he is comparing his own to the ones in the movies and thinks that it looks the same, he is probably pretty well endowed. If all else fails, remind him that most women are much more satisfied by a tongue than a 10" penis.

04-02-2007, 12:11 PM	#3 (permalink)
Cpl2share Is it too cold for beer? Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 344 Location: Way up north. Status: Couple	Re: Need help getting him over the performance, size fear First of all: Get him good and hard, then measure him. As long as he measures at least 5.5 inches, he is at least average. A little known fact: It looks much smaller from where we see it. How do I know? I used actual measurements of my own (which I always thought was low-average) to make a life size replica of my penis for Mrs. Cpl. When I was done, I compared it, yep the same, then took a good look at it and realized that there was no way that I would want that thing going into me! LOL For whatever reason, there is an optical illusion that occures when you look at it from 2' up. The other factor is that he has probably watched porn. Most of us (prior to swinging) have never seen an erect penis other than our own except in porn. They do NOT use small guys in porn. If he is comparing his own to the ones in the movies and thinks that it looks the same, he is probably pretty well endowed. If all else fails, remind him that most women are much more satisfied by a tongue than a 10" penis.