Wow, what a sticky wicket to find yourselves in.
I agree with lesson 1....lmao
We've only had a few experiences so far and only one play session has been stopped...and I'm the one that stopped it (you can see a separate post for that one, wasn't a great situation tho...found out from my play partner that their condom had broke, instead of stopping my SO just took it off and continued on...to put it mildly, I was NOT happy. Not like I caused a huge scene there, but we had words about it on the way home).
Maybe he just wasn't as ready for same room play as his wife thought?
With that kind of drama, don't know if I'd want to play again...but if you like them well enough to extend the olive branch for friendship, good luck.
Maria